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Writer's pictureJason Chan

Feng Shui Master's Guide: Harmonizing East and West Wedding Traditions

Updated: Aug 27

As a Feng Shui master, I perceive the harmony between Western and Eastern wedding traditions. Chinese brides embrace the Western white wedding gown, and many Western brides delight in the elegance and allure of the cheongsam or qi pao. Chinese wedding receptions often display opulence, with the bride changing into several dresses, reflecting the family's wealth and prosperity.


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For the wedding ceremony, a Chinese bride dons an off-white gown, reflecting the belief that white symbolises mourning. However, the Chinese culture believes that the essence of the white dress is balanced by the other outfits worn throughout the day. A traditional wedding outfit known as hong qua, intricately designed with the Dragon and Phoenix motif, is worn during the wedding and tea ceremony. This motif, symbolising the union of the bride and groom, is a powerful and beautiful representation of marriage. These exclusive garments might be complicated to acquire or expensive, leading to a common practice of renting or borrowing them, preferably from a couple with a blissful marriage.





Chinese wedding garments emphasise unity, often designed with minimal cuts. The cheongsam or qi pao, a versatile garment that embraces the wearer's figure with only one primary seam, exemplifies this. These garments come in many colours and styles today, with the cheongsam or qi pao being the favourites. High collars signify formality and are best showcased with an updo hairstyle. Cheongsams not only hold the power to motivate a bride to maintain her figure but also serve as a worthy investment to be worn long after the wedding, showcasing their adaptability and timeless elegance.


When considering outfits for the bridesmaids or the mothers, cheongsams represent an excellent choice. They pay tribute to Chinese culture and add a touch of elegance to a woman's wardrobe. Two-piece pantsuits can be a more conservative alternative, maintaining cultural aesthetics while ensuring comfort throughout the lengthy celebrations.


While the bride is the centre of attention, the groom keeps his wardrobe simple, opting for traditional robes and a tuxedo for the reception. A mandarin-collared suit offers a subtle nod to Chinese style and serves as a sophisticated alternative. To further unify the bridal party, consider incorporating matching elements like fabric for cummerbunds, vests, or pocket squares. Such an effort indeed encapsulates the harmonious blend of East and West in your wedding attire, which aligns with the principles of Feng Shui.






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